If I speak with the tongues of men, and of angels, and have not charity, I am become as sounding brass, or a tinkling cymbal. And if I should have prophecy and should know all mysteries, and all knowledge, and if I should have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, and have not charity, I am nothing. And if I should distribute all my goods to feed the poor, and if I should deliver my body to be burned, and have not charity, it profiteth me nothing.
1 CORINTHIANS 13:1-3 DOUAY-RHEIMS
There are many saints in the Church that inspire us to greater holiness and devotion. The problem for me is that many of them are unrelatable to a nobody like myself. I admire Saint Paul's letters and the spiritual genius of Thomas Aquinas. I am amazed at stigmatists like Saint Francis of Assisi and Padre Pio. I am impressed by the charity of Mother Teresa and the holy ambition of Mother Angelica. These were gifted saints that God used to build up His church. I am not one of those gifted saints. That doesn't mean that a nobody can't become a saint.
I tend to divide the saints into "super saints" and "ordinary saints." The only real difference were the gifts God gave them. A great example would be comparing Batman and Superman. Superman is a god among mortals while Batman is a mere mortal. For some reason, we find Batman more appealing than Superman because we can relate to him. The same is true of ordinary saints and super saints.
My favorite saints are ordinary saints. They are relatable to me. I can find in them models for how I should live and pursue holiness.
1. Our Lady, Queen of Saints
The Virgin Mary exhibited no miraculous gifts during Her earthly life. Yet, she is the highest of all God's creatures. She was humble and simple. That humility infuriated Satan who believed Her honor belonged to him. But God humbles the proud and exalts the humble. Mary reminds me of the power of humility. Her most famous dictum was, "Do whatever He tells you." You can't go wrong with that.
2. Saint Joseph
There are no recorded words of Saint Joseph, yet I find him the most relatable of saints. Joseph provides for us a model of how a husband and father should live dedicated to providing for his family and protecting them. Joseph was a layperson. He held no great position despite being the heir to David's crown. He was a humble carpenter. Some would say he was a nobody. Yet, his strong and silent witness shows us the way. I know many men who live just like Saint Joseph. They love the Lord, and they love their families. They toil happily and ask for nothing special in return. I think every layman should emulate Saint Joseph.
3. Saint Joan of Arc
When it came time to pick a confirmation saint, I picked Saint Joan of Arc. I asked the priest if it was OK to choose a woman saint as a confirmation saint, and he said I could. Everyone thought the choice was "punk rock," but that was not my intention with the choice. I was just impressed by Joan being an uneducated peasant girl who put herself completely in God's hands. Her story is truly amazing.
I probably could have picked some other saint, but Saint Joan had the qualities I wanted to emulate. She was humble, simple, courageous, and died in a similar way to our Lord. Everything she did came from simple love for our Lord. God did everything else.
4. Saint James
When I was a Protestant, I was a huge fan of the epistles of Saint Paul. Protestants love Paul because there is enough ambiguity in his writings to allow them to push their heresies. I remember the Book of Romans being my number one proof text for my Calvinism. The problem is that Saint Paul was thoroughly Catholic. The Protestant smokescreen worked for a time, but I can't read Paul now without knowing the actual meaning of what he wrote. It would be nice if there was an epistle in the New Testament that was more explicitly Catholic and written in plain language. That epistle exists and comes from Saint James.
Martin Luther hated the Book of James and referred to it as an "epistle of straw." Luther wanted to cut it out of the Bible, but his followers resisted this. James refutes the Lutheran doctrine of faith alone. It is actually faith plus works. But I digress. . .
Saint James is the Ernest Hemingway of New Testament writers. He just cuts through the confusion and tells you how to live practically as a Catholic. I won't get into the identity of Saint James though it is widely believed that James was a cousin of Jesus and the Bishop of Jerusalem. This close relationship with our Lord would explain the simplicity and clear teaching of the epistle. I love clarity and simplicity. It is hard to understand Saint Paul and Aquinas. You won't have this problem with Saint James.
5. Saint Francis de Sales
Saint Francis de Sales is the saint of the universal call to holiness. He famously wrote, "It has happened that many have lost perfection in the desert who had preserved it in the world." The gist of that line is that you don't have to become a monk or a nun to attain holiness. Holiness is for everyone regardless of your state in life.
When I came to the conclusion that Opus Dei was a cult and its founder was a grifting con artist, Saint Francis de Sales became my new inspiration and reliable guide on the universal call to holiness. Introduction to the Devout Life is superior to anything Josemaria Escriva ever wrote and comes from a man of deep humility who practiced what he preached. Francis's teachings are stone simple yet profound. Just Google quotations from the man and prepare to be amazed.
6. St. Therese of Lisieux
When Saint Therese looked at the super saints, it filled her with despair because she knew she was not one of them. That despair was the beginning of what we know now as the "Little Way." This obscure and unknown Carmelite nun penned a classic of ordinary holiness teaching that small acts done with great love are what truly matter. Saint Paul said as much in the opening quotation of this blog post. It is the widow's mite. It is the fictional but wonderful story of the little drummer boy at Christmas. Put love into your small acts, and they become great acts because God looks at the heart.
Ultimately, saints love God. Love is the measure not great acts of charitable service or sacrifice. We can't all be a Saint Teresa of Avila but anyone can be a Saint Therese of Lisieux. You just need that love.
Conclusion
I love these saints because they speak to me as a layperson and a nobody. I wasted a lot of my life wanting to be a somebody, but I am content now to be a nobody. It is unfortunate that there are those in the Church who twist the desire for holiness as a way to get money and servitude out of people who don't know any better. I also suspect that many who pursue vocations as permanent deacons, third order Carmelites and Franciscans, and Benedictine oblates do so out of a desire for greatness instead of holiness. I confess this was my motivation in exploring Opus Dei. I wanted to be more than what God had actually called me to be. I would counsel people to be very discerning on such things. Do you wish to be holy or to be great?
I love the Lord. I am a nobody. I am not an egalitarian. God does not dispense His gifts equally to all, and it behooves us to know our place and accept it with humility. I accept my place. Though God does not dispense His gifts equally, He gives all of us exactly what we need. As I told the lady who encountered one of the Catholic cults, everything you need is here in this church as I pointed to the door of her parish. You don't need something "extra." Catholics need to remember that it was Satan and Judas Iscariot who wanted more than what they were actually given.
I appreciate the super saints. They are awesome. I praise God for them. What made them holy was the same thing that will make you holy. This is love and humility. In that regard, we are all equal, Without love and humility, you are nothing.